Sunday, April 13, 2008

Update On “How Did Your FLR Begin?”

I started a poll on Mar 10, 2008 (see How Did Your FLR Begin? and the sidebar). In it I expressed my guess that an overwhelming percentage of FLRs were started and advocated by the male in the relationship.

Although we are not far enough into the results, there is an indication that I was correct to a large extent, but not as much as I thought.

I thank those of you who voted. I would like to ask you for one more thing. Please leave a comment here explaining how your FLR began, or ended. Even if you run across this post months from now, the comments will be instructive to readers.

All of your comments are welcome. I am especially interested in comments from dominant females, and anyone where the relationship began as an FLR, or where it was started or advocated by the woman. And my fellow submissive men, don’t be shy.

So, let’s hear your stories!


All For Her said...

Our FLR began when I realised I preferred to pleasure vs. being pleasured. Not completely understanding those feelings I did research online and discovered FLR's. At that point I realised we were already in an FLR, just without any kink or D/s. I have almost always deferred to my wife. It took a while for my wife to understand, but after about 7 or 8 months she realised that it was completely liberating for her and exciting for me and now we both love it!

Urmel said...

In your analysis, please don't forget that most visitors of your site are males who probably want to start or have start a WLM. Hence you should expect that you get more counts for male-initiated WLMs...
Just my two cents on statistics.

little shaun said...

i approached my Wife about it after years of wondering what She would say. W/we had been drinking at the time and that got me the courage to ask. my entire story is in my blog.