tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post7737832041806480657..comments2023-02-09T01:13:17.763-08:00Comments on HERS Forever: MisogynySusan's Pethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09910157397713736597noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-91649011728480482702008-11-30T04:06:00.000-08:002008-11-30T04:06:00.000-08:00Miss AJ,Thank you for the word.It is great when a ...Miss AJ,<BR/><BR/>Thank you for the word.<BR/><BR/>It is great when a person can earn a living while loving what she or he does. Being a professional Domme is one possibility for an intellingent and sensitive woman.Susan's Pethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09910157397713736597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-85001339295926915342008-11-30T03:21:00.000-08:002008-11-30T03:21:00.000-08:00I have only met two pro-dommes (to my knowledge) a...I have only met two pro-dommes (to my knowledge) and it is clear to me that they love and adore men. They simply find that they can earn an income from their particular kink.<BR/><BR/>Misandry is the counterpoint to misogyny.Skibunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02228379565349940661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-893621560563851432008-11-29T11:07:00.000-08:002008-11-29T11:07:00.000-08:00All you said is true, and is like icing on the cak...All you said is true, and is like icing on the cake. But the cake itself must be made of trust.<BR/><BR/>The main reason why I have a hard time hiring a professional (plumber, pshychologist, etc.) is because I don't trust people without some assurance that they are who and what they claim to be. Walking into an intimate relationship, such as professional D/S, must rely on trust on both sides. <BR/><BR/>I have not experienced this particular relationship, but I can certainly imagine it. The bonding, or <I>dance</I> as you have put it can be quite strong, somewhat like love, only on a different plane. Either person can be hurt when the other turns out to be less than expected.<BR/><BR/>A person with hatred may fool anyone, at least for a while.<BR/><BR/>A slightly different slant on the subject is the matter of being a <I>gentleman</I> or a <I>gentlewoman</I>. The term is not a matter of one's coming into inheritance or suddenly acquiring wealth. Rather, it is a matter of demeanor, and it cuts across economical, educational, and racial lines. I can visualize a Dominatress and her client as being one of this class. In this case hatred is not an option.Susan's Pethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09910157397713736597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-31173856019427714972008-11-29T10:28:00.000-08:002008-11-29T10:28:00.000-08:00I believe that truly amazing bdsm encounters, prof...I believe that truly amazing bdsm encounters, professional or not, are the result of something quite akin to a dance.<BR/><BR/>The dominant and submissive must both cooperate with the rules of the dance, and more importantly must throw their whole beings into the dance.<BR/><BR/>Such and encounter is a thing of great intimacy and bonding.<BR/><BR/>As a result I do not believe that a great bdsm encounter can be gained from an outlook of hatred. A dominatrix who 'hates men' or a submissive who 'hates women' will never be able to provide his or her partner with a level of intimacy required to craft a truly amazing bdsm scene.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com