tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post5947435229081745238..comments2023-02-09T01:13:17.763-08:00Comments on HERS Forever: Poster Couple for FLR Part 6 - What if We Give Up on FLR?Susan's Pethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09910157397713736597noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-70508397262068356092008-03-14T05:06:00.000-07:002008-03-14T05:06:00.000-07:00HH,I can't imagine giving up FLR either, just beca...HH,<BR/><BR/>I can't imagine giving up FLR either, just because "I don't want to play any more." The point is moot, however, because my wife did say that it is not an option.<BR/><BR/>Urmel,<BR/><BR/>You are correct. I feel sad when I read about a man's attempts failing to server his partner. I guess some men want it so badly that they end up working on the wrong problem. But, we, the readers can on occasion offer a fresh point of view that may help.Susan's Pethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09910157397713736597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-49763214590110312442008-03-14T01:47:00.000-07:002008-03-14T01:47:00.000-07:00Just something that comes to my mind on your point...Just something that comes to my mind on your point<BR/><BR/>"FLR is a wonderful superposition on an already successful relationship."<BR/><BR/>I think this is a prerequisite for FLR. I have read so many blogs where I feel something is fundamentally wrong in the relationship. Trying to start a FLR in this situation, without first trying to solve the fundamental issues is bound to fail.<BR/><BR/>I believe that an FLR can be the solution to those problems, but only if both partners agree that there are problems and that FLR is the solution.P. Urmelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04326779021586062080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-48875688272923436112008-03-13T06:54:00.000-07:002008-03-13T06:54:00.000-07:00Even in the worst of times i have realized my FLR ...Even in the worst of times i have realized my FLR has meant more to me than anything and i could never give it up. Whenever problems exist the two of you just need to communicate and help fine tune things, that shoud keep your FLR alive and floursihing for all your days together. Best wishes,<BR/><BR/>--hhhelpmate hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17480655063916487449noreply@blogger.com