tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post4975561265663199348..comments2023-02-09T01:13:17.763-08:00Comments on HERS Forever: EvolutionSusan's Pethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09910157397713736597noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-86301704568479904502010-03-03T10:12:03.792-08:002010-03-03T10:12:03.792-08:00When regular life gets too hectic and I'm feel...When regular life gets too hectic and I'm feeling down about our relationship I try to remember that if it weren't for the doldrums the good times wouldn't be as good. If we were to have things run perfectly each day we would soon lose interest as it would become so routine and repetitious. There are no good times without bad times.<br />Of course this goes for life in general, not just a wife led marriage.All For Herhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06883152899405694318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-4518414091670018502010-02-19T12:15:27.569-08:002010-02-19T12:15:27.569-08:00Interesting, thoughtful essay. Well done!
bobbi
h...Interesting, thoughtful essay. Well done!<br /><br />bobbi<br />http://stores.lulu.com/empressarisesUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16234169871857499387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-39230117001283664942010-02-19T05:06:50.186-08:002010-02-19T05:06:50.186-08:00HMP....I think your comment in reply is excellent ...HMP....I think your comment in reply is excellent too. It is always good to be reminded to keep real, act naturally and be sensitive to the others needs.<br /><br /><br />SP...even though things evolve the trick must be to be able to keep the initial building blocks in view and use them for continued stability. To not allow the changes to obscure what remains fundamentally important.dollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06220851788691260620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-80094451031587555552010-02-19T04:46:28.395-08:002010-02-19T04:46:28.395-08:00Wow! This is a great post! There is so much truth ...Wow! This is a great post! There is so much truth in here. I used to search bulletin boards and blogs for new ideas I could apply to my relationship to make it a better more "authentic" FLR. Over time I have stopped doing that. For one thing it's a bit like the blind leading the blind. For another rules and structure don't help very much in human relationships. Things will always change just as you say and what worked today very well may not work tomorrow. <br /><br />The best advice I can give others (and myself) is to keep it loose, keep it real and don't try to force a square peg in a round hole. Do what feels right and what comes naturally. Don't try to force your relationship to be like some preconceived notion in your head. Be sensitive to the other person's wants and needs. And don't be afraid ask for what YOU want and need from your partner. Don't assume you are a second class citizen just because you assume the submissive role in the relationship. Asking for what you need is not "topping from the bottom". <br /><br />There really is a large sexual component to all of this. So if the sexual/romantic flame goes out and the passion dies in your relationship you will probably find that your FLR dies with it. It's up to both parties to keep the home fires burning! <br /><br />Awesome post SP! ;-)Her Majesty's Playthinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07185896552621339359noreply@blogger.com