tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post3370344318177016786..comments2023-02-09T01:13:17.763-08:00Comments on HERS Forever: On the submissive female…Susan's Pethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09910157397713736597noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-65531622380123115352008-08-29T05:16:00.000-07:002008-08-29T05:16:00.000-07:00Sweet Doll,I seldom read submissive female blogs f...Sweet Doll,<BR/><BR/>I seldom read submissive female blogs for the reasons that I already stated. I am still not up to date on your latest posts, so I may not comment on them until later. <BR/><BR/>Your blog is special among other submissive female writings: you write well. I assume that you could write about anything and I would still enjoy it. The content and context of your blog are provocative. Your photographs get and keep my attention. Given all that, I continue with pleasure.Susan's Pethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09910157397713736597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-59936035562524359282008-08-29T03:46:00.000-07:002008-08-29T03:46:00.000-07:00When I started reading submissive male blogs I was...When I started reading submissive male blogs I was horrified by the attitudes on some that I read. The promotion of women to some mythical status and the expectation that what the male wanted to do to show his devotion should surely be desirable to all women once they are enlightened. <BR/><BR/>I haven't detected this on female submissive blogs, we still retain an understanding that there is The Man and there are men. If relationship fails to meet the submissives needs or turns abusive we walk. I personally would not enter into a marriage on the basis of male dominance/female submission and when that proposition was recently put to me it made me think very seriously about what I would and would not accept.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-91921518217151195082008-08-23T00:58:00.000-07:002008-08-23T00:58:00.000-07:00Thank you for your kind words, they make me blush ...Thank you for your kind words, they make me blush and smile at the same time.<BR/><BR/>I think whatever the position of man or woman in a D/s relationship it requires respect and affection otherwise I just think it is abusive. In my own I have come to the conclusion that we are two partners in a dance, it is carefully choreographed and follows some classical steps. It is called a D/s relationship but neither partner can perform without the other. <BR/><BR/><BR/>I was in kmart the other day and caught a Greek man looking at me, then he casually turned and started walking in the opposite direction, yes it cheered up my ego as I recognized the manouver and knew that as soon as I passed he would start to follow behind.dollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06220851788691260620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-3985786414432692532008-08-18T13:30:00.000-07:002008-08-18T13:30:00.000-07:00Urmel,I admire your adaptation to this role. Knowi...Urmel,<BR/><BR/>I admire your adaptation to this role. Knowing that you prefer to sumbit, you are doing great. My first preference aside I would be happy to satisfy my wife in any way she needed. <BR/><BR/>What I find ironic is that I am so willing to serve her that I could be the sexual and all out dominant if that is what she wanted. It may sound contratictory, but if you really think of it, it makes sense. For example, when a dear female partner agrees to become dominant just to satisfy her male, that is in a very personal way serving her male. Ok, there are degrees of service, but if the whole thing was not serving <I>her needs</I>, then she is just being nice rather than <I>the dominant partner</I>.<BR/><BR/>I don't remember where I left a comment lately saying that unless the female really needs and wants to be dominant in a partnership, especially outside the bedroom, that relationship is just serving a male's fantasy regardless of how successful it is on the short term.<BR/><BR/>My relationship is somewhat of this nature since my wife is not naturally dominant, although she loves the power she has over me. Her power is not based on dominance, but on her attraction to me and our shared love. What this means is that I submit to her if or when she wants my submission, the rest of the time I support her in any way that I can.<BR/>If I were not such a marshmallow when it comes to females, I would never have wandered off of the vanilla track, and she would never have known her power. When she uses her power, it could move the earth. This is why I have a hard time being patient with extremely stylized female led relationships. Unless the female is the one who really wants it, it may go on for a short time, but it will fizzle out for sure with neither parner satisfied. Oh well!Susan's Pethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09910157397713736597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-89160919244751709432008-08-18T09:20:00.000-07:002008-08-18T09:20:00.000-07:00SP, I love your deep and unobstructed view. Almost...SP, I love your deep and unobstructed view. Almost academic.<BR/><BR/>You offer an interesting perspective on submissive women. As you know what you describe is a challenge that I am facing. Fortunately, I am not facing the challenge to hurt Princess in any way, but some things are coming close.<BR/>At the same time I realize, that my protective instincts help me to give Princess what she desires. A strong partner that guides her an, if necessary corrects her; not by force, but by counsel.<BR/>Sometimes a D/s relationship is similar to a parent/child relationship. You may not or you may use force. But two thinks are clear. First, the parent is stronger and wiser and must use his/her power to protect the child. Second, sometimes you must hurt your child to prevent greater harm. E.g. any type of invasive medical treatment.<BR/><BR/>Keep going!<BR/>UrmelP. Urmelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04326779021586062080noreply@blogger.com