tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post1301936256000718179..comments2023-02-09T01:13:17.763-08:00Comments on HERS Forever: Am I A Switch?Susan's Pethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09910157397713736597noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-77707186501660742462008-12-11T08:29:00.000-08:002008-12-11T08:29:00.000-08:00Erotic art? Oh my! One of my favorite is http://ww...Erotic art? Oh my! One of my favorite is http://www.ilnudo.it/Harukawa/index.htm. I know, he is stylized, but it just gets me at the most basic level.<BR/><BR/>On the other subject, I would love to interview a sample of all those absolutely beautiful females of all sizes and ages who do still and video photography for commercial enticement toward female beauty. I don't know this, but guess: many don't have much going for themselves except their transitory beauty. Many have not tried, many will not try, many can't try to be useful in other ways. After all, it is much easier to just bare yourself rather than learn a legitimate profession and practice it. This is why the "industry" persists. This is why some men say, "Once your youth and beauty fades, ..."<BR/><BR/>I find this sad and wasteful. But women have to learn if they want it fair. Just being female, or just being beautiful, is not enough. They have to use what they have in a positive way. And then what about the not-so-beautiful and older females? If they don't have a plan and implement it, they are just as screwed as any male.Susan's Pethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09910157397713736597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-3043277569997647552008-12-10T22:10:00.000-08:002008-12-10T22:10:00.000-08:00Like you, I don't enjoy 'hardcore' pornography, bu...Like you, I don't enjoy 'hardcore' pornography, but I do enjoy erotic, suggestive visual arts.<BR/><BR/>I don't though think that all women who work in suck and fuck flicks are exploited. While I imagine that some may be, I presume that they are a small minority, likely a very small minority.<BR/><BR/>I think that some women truly enjoy it. I think that for others, it is a good way of making a living for them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-49416169904945950612008-12-10T04:01:00.000-08:002008-12-10T04:01:00.000-08:00Anon,Sounds like you have given this subject a lot...Anon,<BR/><BR/>Sounds like you have given this subject a lot of thought. You are right, of course. I just want to add that i emphasized that i am a submissive <I>with her</I>. I would prefer to submit to women if she and I did not have a committed relationship. However, If I had run into a woman earlier who was definitely submissive, and wanted my domination, I would have been glad to do it. Instead of a loving submissive, I would have been a loving dominant. Of course, this has not happened, so I don't really know how far my domination would have gone past the bedroom.Susan's Pethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09910157397713736597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-57608153655518310032008-12-09T19:41:00.000-08:002008-12-09T19:41:00.000-08:00With full apologies to your lovely wife, I must re...With full apologies to your lovely wife, I must respectfully disagree.<BR/><BR/>A Switch has always been defined to me as one who can enjoy either role of Dom or sub. Since you are referring to strictly bedroom activities, I am tempted to use Top and bottom. <BR/><BR/>A Top enjoys being a Top because they hold the power in the situation. Whether this means they are free to "force" their bottom into pleasure services or pleasure the bottom til they burst, the decision is still the Top's. There are "Service Oriented Tops" who take great sexual pleasure in pleasuring their partner...but nonetheless they are still in control. <BR/><BR/>A bottom enjoys being a bottom because they relinquish their control. Whether this means being pleasured without the ability to choose or pleasuring their Top with or without the promise of sexual reward, the bottom's pleasure is being controlled with the knowledge that they will be kept safe and secure by their Top.<BR/><BR/>The fact that you would Top your wife for her satisfaction and that your pleasure comes from doing this deed of service signifies (to me, at least) that you are still submissive. Being a Switch would mean that you enjoy both relinquishing the power and having it...when, in fact, your wife holds the power in both situations.<BR/><BR/>I hope this makes sense. I very rarely get the chance to actively state my many musings. <BR/><BR/>Best Regards<BR/>~FAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5441439346777358800.post-26566629837766730712008-12-09T04:33:00.000-08:002008-12-09T04:33:00.000-08:00A prude? No. You have your preferences, and thos...A prude? No. You have your preferences, and those do not include women being exploited sexually.<BR/><BR/>Could you be a switch? Most likely, in the context you have presented.<BR/><BR/>Could you be a bi? In certain situations, yes. You are walking, talking, testosterone.mistressusanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08898280664923048285noreply@blogger.com